Falling for a girl
who’s giving you mixed signals? Read these 15 foxy signs she’s leading you on
and taking you nowhere. And escape her clutches!
15 SIGNS SHE’S JUST LEADING YOU ON
If you’re convinced the girl who’s messing with your mind and your heart
isn’t just being friendly, and is actually trying to lead you on, read these 15
signs she’s leading you on.
It’s very easy to pinpoint a girl who’s just toying with your heart. And
if you do see these signs, walk away before it’s too late!
1 The relationship with no name. She flirts with you, goes out
on dates with you, but doesn’t give the relationship a name. Both of you may be
intensely attracted to each other, but she still calls you a good friend even
as all your friends wonder what’s going on.
2 She makes out with you. She may make out with you, or she may
cuddle and cozy up with you now and then. But how far things go in bed or
whether both of you would even make out on a date completely depends on her
mood and her plans. You’re just happy with the scraps she throws depending on
how she feels at a particular moment. [Read:
3 It’s a secret relationship. A few of her friends may know
both of you are close, or are on the verge of dating, but none of her friends
have any idea that something’s even going on between the both of you. It’s a
secret relationship and she wants to keep it that way.
4 She’s distant. She’s distant and aloof when you get clingy
or try to trail her all the time. When you give her a lot of attention, she
tries to keep her distance from you.
5 And then she wants to be closer. When you give her the space
because she’s being distant, she immediately changes her behavior and starts
craving for your attention when you back away. She tries to keep in touch with
you and calls you often just to win your attention back. [
6 She hasn’t been in too many relationships. She claims to
have dated very few guys. She probably tells you she’s been in very few
relationships too. But that’s probably because she leads on most guys she dates
and doesn’t like calling them her ex boyfriends. If you know she’s dated a
particular guy before and she claims she never dated that guy, but they were
just friends, she’s definitely leading you on too!
7 She makes herself appear helpless. She convinces you that you’re very important to her and that she
needs you. She makes herself appear weak and helpless without your advice and
emotional support. She tells you she needs you, and that she’s very close to
you, and she doesn’t know what she’d do without you in her life.
8 She blows hot and
cold. She’s friendly and close
for several days or weeks, and all of a sudden, she ignores you and won’t have
time for you again. You see this happening pretty frequently, where she ignores
you when she’s getting a lot of attention from other guys
9 She needs you when
she’s lonely. She comes to you only
when she’s lonely. She doesn’t remember you or care about you when she’s having
fun. But when she’s bored or alone, she behaves like she misses you so much and
can’t stop thinking about you. And you need to make time for her.
10 Flirty phone
conversations. There’s more intimacy
over the phone than in person. She may not always throw herself at you when
both of you meet up in person. But she’s always warm and flirty over the phone,
or while texting each other. She may even get naughty over the phone or have
phone sex with you.
11 She wants you completely. She hates it when you
give another girl any attention. She would even try to win your heart back and
woo you with loving or seductive words when you start falling for another girl.
12 She may fall for
another guy. When a girl is leading
you on, she knows you’d behave like a lost puppy and trail her even if she
likes another guy. This girl who’s leading you on may tell you about all the
guys who are giving her attention, and she may even tell you about a guy she’s
falling for. It’s completely acceptable for her to like another guy, but when
you do the same or talk about another girl, she pretends like she’s not
interested in hearing what you have to say.
13 She hooks up. She may date another guy and still give you
her attention, which makes you feel special, and confused at the same time.
Eventually, you don’t care whether she’s another guy’s girlfriend, you just
want her attention and her love.
14 She doesn’t want to
acknowledge that you like her. She’s very evasive when
it comes to talking about your feelings. Every time you tell her that you love
her or want to date her exclusively, she’d just smile or change the subject. Or
in the worst case, she may tell you she can’t think of you as anything more
than a friend. But she’d still lean in, wrap her arms around you and kiss you
to make you feel better!
15 She tells you she
loves you. You almost believe you’re in a relationship
with her already. She may tell you that she loves you and needs you, and yet,
she doesn’t behave like your girlfriend. She blows hot and cold, and she just
expects you to cater to her whims and fancies as and when she needs your
attention
A girl who’s leading you on may be using you!
If
you’re in a complicated relationship with a girl who’s just leading you on, you
need to realize that her subtle manipulation tactics are just screwing your
mind. She’s playing you and you’re falling for all her tricks because your love
for her clouds your judgment.
Even
if do you confront her, or give her an ultimatum to date you or stop talking to
you, she may break down or tell you that she really likes you, but she just
needs more time to sort the confusions in her mind.
What you need to do if a girl is leading you on?
Think
about what you really want for yourself. Of course, it feels really nice to
hear from her and hear the sweet and sexy things she says, but you do know deep
inside that all this is going nowhere. Eventually, she may just give you the
cold shoulder or date someone else.
Once
you’re stuck in the clutches of a girl who leads you on, you have no choice.
You screw your mind and obsess about where the relationship is going. You’re
confused and frustrated, annoyed and angry, and yet, you can’t leave her or
walk away from her because she knows just what to say and do to dig her nails
deeper into your heart.
And
every time you try to restrain yourself from getting in touch with her, or try
to avoid falling in love with her, she’d try everything to make you lose your
resolve and stay in love with her.
This
girl who leads you on is like an addiction you can’t get rid of. And the only
way to end this miserable excuse of a relationship is by picking a fight with
her that’ll make her dislike you.
Pick
a fight and say something that’ll hurt her ego, which would bring out her inner
monster and make her hate you. Girls who love leading guys on have fragile
egos, and when you drive a stake into her weak ego, she’d hate you for it. And
there’s a big chance that she’d walk away from you for good.
Of
course, you’ll feel miserable for letting her get away from you. But you do
know the relationship was a lost cause already, don’t you?
Use
these 15 signs to find out if a girl is leading you on. And if you do see these
traits in a girl who’s blowing hot and cold with you, get away as fast as you
can, however you can! If you hold on to the relationship any longer, it may
just be too darn late and too darn hard.
source: lovepanky
