David Beckham scored a goal for parents on Monday, striking back against all the
critics who tell us they know how to parent our children better than we do.
Beckham, known
as much for his physique and his wife Victoria as his incredible soccer career,
was reacting to a Daily Mail story criticizing his daughter's use of a
pacifier (a "dummy" in U.K. parlance) at age 4.
"Experts warn David and Victoria Beckham's little girl may
end up with 'speech or dental issues' if she continues to use one," warned
Sunday's edition, posting a picture of Harper in West Hollywood with her famous
father.
Beckham wasn't
having any of it, posting a scathing response and reasoning for Harper using
the "dummy" on his Instagram account on Monday.
"Why do
people feel they have the right to criticize a parent about their own children
without having any facts ??" he wrote.
"Everybody
who has children knows that when they aren't feeling well or have a fever you
do what comforts them best and most of the time it's a pacifier so those who
criticize think twice about what you say about other people's children because
actually you have no right to criticize me as a parent
There isn't a parent alive today who hasn't been corrected about
their parenting by complete strangers who would never otherwise interfere in an
adult's life.
It's true that
the American Academy of Pediatrics warns against a child
sucking strongly on a pacifier, thumb or fingers after two to four years of
age. "This behavior may affect the shape of his mouth or how his teeth are
lining up."
But there's no
way for critics to know if a child is having a hard day and the parent grabbed
the one thing that he knew would soothe his child. Or maybe the parent was
having a hard day—yes, even superhuman David Beckham, looking all hunky in West
Hollywood in his Pink Floyd T-shirt, might be having a tough time.
We parents get
criticized for looking at our phones while our children are on the playground
or helping too much while our children are on the playground, not dressing them
warmly enough or dressing them too warmly, asking people to be quiet when they
nap or letting them nap too long, or not forcing them to hug people they don't
want to hug (my
personal favorite).
The list is
endless, and people seem to think they have the right to comment anytime.
Unless that
child is being verbally abused, beaten, locked up in a hot car or otherwise
traumatized, my advice is: First ask yourself if it's your business to comment
on a situation about which you have no background.
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